9:10 9 September 2010

Help for Intense Grief

If your grief is not getting any better after the death of your loved one, you may need to reach out for help.  Especially if your grief has turned into depression, you need to talk to someone.  Counselors and professional therapists or even your clergy man can help you through your grieving because they allow you to talk about it and express strong feelings.  Many counselors also specialize in teenagers and children if your family is having trouble coping as well. 

It is natural for someone who has experienced a loss to think about death in some degree.  But if your loss has you thinking about suicide or hurting yourself in some way, or you feel you can no longer endure the pain, you need to seek help right away.  Here are some signs that it may be time to call for help:

1. You’ve been grieving for 4 months or longer and the pain is not getting any better.  2. You feel and act depressed.  3.  Your grief is so intense you cannot go about your regular routine and activities.  4. You are having a hard time concentrating, sleeping, eating or socializing like you normally do. 5. You feel you can’t go on living after your loss and you think about suicide, dying, or hurting yourself.  If you are experiencing one or all of these symptoms of intense grief, please reach out and make a call.  Your doctor may be able to recommend someone.  If your children need help, talk to their doctor or school counselor.  Watch your loved ones for these warning signs and don’t wait to get help.

Pet Burial Stones are another constructive way to help get you through the grieving process.  Write a special, personal tribute only you can write to your lost loved one, and share it with other.

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