10:53 25 March 2010

Children Understanding Euthanasia

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Children don’t always understand Euthanasia and why it may be necessary.  They need to be offered age-appropriate explanations and as a parent you need to be available to answer their questions.  They need to know that is it NORMAL to feel sad when someone we love dies, and that the pet’s illness is not something the child caused.

For young children you may need to explain death, especially if they have not lost a loved one, whether human or companion animal before.  You need to let them know that death and sleeping are not the same, since “put to sleep” is a common term for Euthanasia.  It is much better to say that the pet will be helped to die peacefully and without anymore pain.  Explain that either the pet is very, very old and it’s body has worn out and will stop working.  Or, that your pet is very, very sick and may be suffering.   You need to prepare ahead of time as to what to expect, and talk about your Veterinarian’s diagnosis and the pet’s prognosis.   You may want to talk about the cost of the teatments and the care, and also the side-effects and your pet’s quality of life.  You may even want to schedule an appointment with your Vet so he/she can explain the euthanasia proceedure to your child, and answer any questions they may have.  Never Euthanize the family pet when the children are away, they need to be a part of the decision and also need an opportunity to say good-bye and make the most of whatever time they have left with your pet.  You may also want to include your children in choosing from a variety of Pet Memorials of which would be the most appropriate and fitting for your family pet.

2 Responses to “Children Understanding Euthanasia”

  1. SherwinJTB says:

    I don’t think my parents gave us a chat about death in the family. It was pretty much a silent event when my grandmother and pet dog died. When my sister died they weren’t exactly calm about it. I wasn’t expecting much since these things come suddenly. Luckily I didn’t find out about any deaths that were close to me until after high school.

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