What is a Pet Loss Support Group?
Losing a cherished companion animal is difficult enough, especially when your family, friends and co-workers may not be animal lovers and don’t understand the depth of your loss. Many people don’t grasp the significance an animal can play in your life, and cannot accept the attachment you had to your pet. Because of this common problem, Pet Loss Support Groups have been formed in which you may choose to take part to help you get through the grieving process.
A Pet Loss Support Group is often run by volunteers who have lost pets themselves. They have learned to work through their own grief and are committed to helping others get through the experience too. The group is organized to help members be able to bear the burden of losing a pet. It provides a safe, structured place where healthy people can come and share similar experiences and work throught the grieving process together. They meet on a regular basis to share stories of their pets, learn more about the grieving process, express and work through their feelings, and reflect with others on the meaning of it all. Often photos are passed around, Pet Memorials shared, and poems, eulogies or tributes read. Some larger groups even have professionals who assist them, like bereavement counselors and veterinarians. They can offer expertise, educational and medical information that may not be otherwise available.
A Pet Loss Support Group is not a social gathering designed to introduce people to similar interests, nor is it a from of group therapy. They are not meant to cure long-standing emotional problems, or alter personalities or change anyone’s basic values or beliefs. It is a group of people who are experiencing the same feelings you are and are available to help you better cope with your grief and come to terms with your loss. Whenever two or more people share the painful experience of coping with the loss of a cherished companion animal, there is a place for a Pet Loss Support Group.