Archive for February 26th, 2010
Why Does it Hurt So Much?
After losing a beloved pet, many people are shocked to discover how deeply grieved they are about the loss. Many feel like there is something wrong with them because they didn’t feel as bad when a human loved one died. This is a very common feeling, and yes, it is normal. Statistics today show that more Americans have pets than children, and most pet owners regard their pets as a member of the family. How we react to a death of any family member – human or animal – depends to a large extent on the relationship they have had with us on a day-t0-day basis. Many have a very strong attachment to their pets and a significant relationship with theim. Most people have a pet because of the companionship a pets provide, hence the more common used term companion animal.
In today’s modern, mobile society, more people are childless, single, windowed, or divorced and with both parents working many children come home to an empty home after school. More older folkes live alone and farther away from their extended families, and to those homebound a pet may be the only social contact they have. A pet gives us constant presence, availability and devotion, and are our best source of unconditional love. They are to many the ideal child, parent, mate or friend. They listen without judgement or reproach, and never give advice. They accept us exactly how we are, no matter how we look, feel or behave. They always forgive readily and never hold a grudge. No matter how much life changes in our unpredictable lives, our pets are always there for us.
When looking to properly inter your lost loved one, a Dog Casket can help bring closure and comfort, knowing you have done the best for him/her when they pass on.